VaBeachGuy 12 Posted October 5, 2003 Looking for par'Mach in All the Wrong Places Grilka makes her second appearance on DS9 in Looking foe par'Mach in All the Wrong Places. The first time we see Grilka is in season 3's episode entitled "The House of Quark" in which Grilka forces Quark to marry her in order to save her house from falling after her husband was killed in an accident in Quarks bar. Looking for par'Mach is a fun episode in which we see Worf become infatuated with Grilka only to be told that she could never mate with him due to his dishonor. Much to Worf's shock he learns that Grilka was once Quark's wife. When Quark comes to Jadzia to enlist her help in winning the affection of Grilka, Worf sees a chance to prove that he does in deed know how to court a Klingon woman and he takes up the task of winning the heart of Grilka for Quark. To read the full episode synopsis from STARTREK.COM click the spoiler below: Click For Spoiler While having a drink with Dax, Worf is taken by the sight of Grilka, a Klingon woman, as she enters the station with Tumek and her guard, Thopok. Worf falls instantly in love, and watches, horrified, as Grilka kisses Quark. Grilka is Quark's ex-wife, thanks to a complicated marriage of convenience. Undaunted, Worf decides to pursue Grilka, and tries to capture her attention at Quark's. He is crushed when Tumek says that, since Worf is dishonored among Klingons, Grilka can never mate with him. Tumek then adds insult to injury by commenting that Worf's human upbringing shows he knows nothing about how to pursue a Klingon woman. Later, Quark asks Worf and Dax for help. Grilka has invited him to dinner in her quarters, and he has no idea what to do. Despite his feelings for Grilka, Worf offers some courtship pointers and the evening is a huge success. Quark thanks Worf enthusiastically for his help, commenting that Worf seems to have the key to Grilka's heart. Quark asks Worf to help him win Grilka and, seeing it as a chance to prove he knows plenty about Klingon women, Worf agrees. In a holosuite, Worf and Dax help Quark act out a Klingon battle scene, which bores Quark until he learns that the fight culminates with the male and female warrior joining in mad, passionate love. Later that night, after he and Grilka have apparently acted out the ritual on their own, Grilka and Quark share a romantic drink. Watching them outrages Thopok, and he challenges Quark to fight to the death. Quark's situation is hopeless — if he doesn't fight, he loses Grilka. If he does, he loses his life. But Dax has an idea. Worf uses a virtual control device to move Quark's body, effectively fighting for him. With the plan ready, Dax questions Worf about his attraction to Grilka andhints that he should pursue someone more attainable. Worf, however, is clueless to Dax's advances. Later, the battle begins, and with Worf hidden in a holosuite controlling Quark's every move, the Ferengi performs admirably — at least until Worf accidentally damages the virtual control device. Quark is left defenseless in the middle of the battle of his life. Quark stops the fight and, realizes he must come up with a solution, stalls. Pretending that Ferengi tradition demands that he make a lengthy speech about his beloved, he begins talking about Grilka, while Worf and Dax rush to fix the virtual control device. They are successful, and the fight is on again — Quark quickly knocks Thopok to the floor. But instead of killing his opponent, Worf has Quark deliver his sword to Grilka, allowing her to discharge Thopok while letting him retain his honor. Now alone, Quark and Grilka fall all over each other passionately. Elsewhere, alone with Dax, Worf finally succumbs to her advances, realizing that his ideal woman may have been in front of him all along. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shrek 0 Posted October 8, 2003 That was a great episode of DS9. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
captainfreeman 0 Posted October 9, 2003 Grilka,a very cute Klingon Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Admiral Kirk 1 Posted October 10, 2003 Apparently Quark likes it rough... :P Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mike 5 Posted October 11, 2003 Just watched this episode for the first time..I like it..It was a very good episode..I like Grilka in this one and in 'House of Quark'...Best looking Klingon I've ever seen.. :P I was wondering when the Worf/Dax thing was going to start.. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VaBeachGuy 12 Posted October 21, 2003 An interesting sub-plot that I forgot to mention in the original post is the sexual tension between Kira and Miles. It was interesting to see how they dealt with it in the face of Keiko trying to push them together without knowing that they were experiencing this tension. I always get the feeling at the end that Miles wants to kiss Kira and the same for her but she finally tells him to leave to avoid the situation. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LadyNarana 0 Posted October 21, 2003 I'm with you on the Miles/Nerys feelings at the end of the episode - I thought the shuttlecraft scene was great - especially when she is describing her getaway house. It's a good reminder that, even if you're in a committed relationship, you can still feel attraction. I also thought it was good to make the point that you don't have to do anything about it!! I think it's interesting that Miles and Keiko are really the only couple to ever last any significant period of time in ST. Dax and Worf would have, I think, but Dukat took care of that. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Crewman_Parrish 0 Posted November 10, 2003 Another of my fav' episodes of Deep Space Nine.I remember being furious at Worf for not seeing that Dax was clearly attracted to him.I think I yelled at the tv screen I didn't like the Miles-Kira romantic angle.Maybe I just hated the thought that Miles would betray Keiko? :blink: Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ddillard 2 Posted December 20, 2003 I just just rewatched this episode last night and it is a great episode. I love being able to see the beginnings of the relationship between Worf and Jadzia and the obvious Jealousy in her eyes as Worf is pursuing Grilka. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VaBeachGuy 12 Posted December 20, 2003 Yeah that was a really good episode, I saw hints of a romance before this episode but you could really see it early in this one. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gul_nodrog 2 Posted December 21, 2003 It's one of our favorites. Quark is hilarious, as usual, but Worf is a scream as well. The Miles and Kira thing was funny, too, in a weird & uncomfortable sort of way. I never for a moment believed that Miles would act on any of those feelings, so I never worried about his marriage. It was a very enjoyable subplot. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VaBeachGuy 12 Posted October 10, 2005 If I recall correctly we see a bit of jealousy from Odo in this episode don't we? Where he's teasing Kira about living with Miles. At least that's how I saw it, as jealousy. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites