Wishfire 2 Posted December 22, 2007 It's been about 13 years since I've seen my mother. I'd like to see her again, even if she tells me to piss off. I just want her to know that she's a grandmother twice over. I have no money, so I'll be hitch-hiking. But thankfully, she doesn't live too far away. She lives in central California, whil I live in SoCal. Unless she moved. In any case, I'll probably be gone for a while. So, if I am, I'd like to wish everyone a merry Christmas. Wish me luck. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
youbroughtheryouRiker 2 Posted December 22, 2007 Good luck man. I can't imagine being estranged, even on that low a level, from my parents. May the reunion be joyous. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BakulaBabe 2 Posted December 22, 2007 Good luck, and be safe. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kor37 9 Posted December 22, 2007 Hitchhiking during Christmas?......Be Careful! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Wishfire 2 Posted December 22, 2007 Well, it seems I'll be going in a few hours. (I found a ride up to LA, but not until around 7 o'clock.) Hitch-hiking during the Christmas season is one thing. But doing it in the middle of the night? Yeah, right. I've got what I need together. Plus an additional $14. I should be okay. I might post a couple times within the next few hours or so. But if not, thanks everyone. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jadziaezri 0 Posted December 22, 2007 good luck! be safe and have a joyus christmas Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Wishfire 2 Posted December 23, 2007 You know what? Forget I said anything. Thanks to everyone who wished me luck, but I've given it some serious thought and have decided that if my mother couldn't put in the effort to try to contact me the first half of my life, and then again after I actually met her, then she is not worth my effort. I have more important things in my life, like my own family. She has never been part of my life, aside from seven months when I was 14, and I've been doing just fine without her. I see no reason to change it. I realy need to stop coming to impulsive decisions. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
youbroughtheryouRiker 2 Posted December 23, 2007 Wrong answer man. Don't let the chance go by completely! Even if you don't do it now, do it sometime!! It'd be an awesome thing, even if it reconciliation should prove impossible. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TJ Phaserman 2 Posted December 23, 2007 happy hunting my friend. be safe, and merry christmas Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Wishfire 2 Posted December 23, 2007 (edited) My wife and children are more important to me than someone who is basically a stranger to me that I didn't meet until a month before I turned 14 and haven't seen or heard from since several onths after I turned 14. Edited December 23, 2007 by NutcrackerOmega Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
youbroughtheryouRiker 2 Posted December 23, 2007 I'm not arguing that point, and I won't say I understand your pain because I don't and can't... but it just seems to me that even if it's just a phone call, you should make some effort, eventually. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jadziaezri 0 Posted December 23, 2007 good luck with whatever you chose to do... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Data 0 Posted December 24, 2007 Ahh, if she didn't bother to come see you. You probably should not waste your Christmas trying to see her. Particularly when your funds are low. Yes, your own family is more important. Maybe another time. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gummy 0 Posted December 24, 2007 Whichever decision you make, it's the right one. Because you made it. No one else. I hope your Holidays are well. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites